Tech can help you take care of your aging parents. Or maybe yourself.

From Tech/Fast Company 11/12/2024

From fall detection devices to cameras, here’s what you need to care for your

older loved ones.

Most of us wish our parents would live as long as humanly possible, but some

challenges arise if our wishes come true. While every individual is different,

advanced aging usually brings about mobility issues and increased risk from

things that may not have impacted us too much when we were younger, such

as minor falls. The older a person gets, the more likely they will need care

around the house and require more frequent observation.

Yet even though we may want to be there at all times, making sure they

are okay, the simple fact is that work, other family commitments, and

distance can limit our ability to provide care. Thankfully, while not at all a

replacement for personal attention, there are now several pieces of

everyday tech you can use to help make sure your aging parents are

staying safe while also making their everyday lives more manageable in

the process.

Smartwatches with fall detection, like the Apple Watch

As someone with an aging parent, the biggest thing I worry about is them

having a fall. When we’re younger, tripping over a rug might just cause

bruising and minor embarrassment. For an older person, the same

accident can have devastating consequences—broken bones or even

death. A 2023 Centers for Disease Control and Prevention report found

that unintentional falls are the leading cause of injury-related deaths of

adults 65 or older. In 2021 alone, 39,000 older adults in America died due

to falls. That’s more than 106 fall-related deaths each day.This is why I got my mom an Apple Watch. All Apple Watches have built-in

fall detection. If a person stumbles, the Apple Watch can detect this, text

all their emergency contacts, and call 911. Should your aging loved one

fall, even alone, others will know they need help nearly instantly.

Recent Samsung Galaxy and Google Pixel watches, as well as other

activity trackers, also offer fall detection.

Indoor security cameras like Ring

A security camera is probably the next best gadget for monitoring aging

parents. Of course, this comes with privacy issues, and it’s critical to get

your parents’ consent before you install one in their home.

What is particularly nice about many home security cameras, such as

Amazon’s Ring system, is that they feature motion detection. If you can’t

reach your parent, a camera’s motion alert can reveal where they were

last seen. While it’s understandable that people may not want cameras

surveilling them in every room of the house, it is worth talking with your

parent to see if they would be willing to have cameras pointing at areas of

particular risk—such as the bottom of a staircase or the driveway, where

they are more likely to stumble and fall.

Item trackers like AirTags

Some people’s minds stay sharp their entire lives, but others may become

more forgetful. If you find a parent telling you they always forget where

they leave their keys or wallet, an item tracker, like Apple’s AirTag, is a

nice, cheap gadget that could really help.

Item trackers can easily be attached to keys, purses, and remote controls.

To locate an item, the user simply has to open the tracking app on their

phone.

Smart plugs for lights and appliances

I once had a friend complain to me that whenever she went to her father’s

house, she would find nearly every light on, whether it was 10 a.m. or 2a.m. When she asked her father why, he said it was too much of a pain to

go around the house turning them on and off every day (her father had

mobility issues).

Leaving lights on around the clock can lead to electrical safety issues,

though, not to mention increased energy costs. So my friend went out and

bought smart plugs for nearly every lamp in her father’s house. A smart

plug is a small adapter that plugs into an outlet. When you plug a lamp

into it (or any other electrical device), you can turn it on or off via a simple

tap in the associated smartphone app. They can be found on Amazon and

in home improvement retailers like Home Depot.

My friend showed her father how to use the app, and the next time she

visited, she says only the lights he needed were on. She even put a smart

plug on his toaster oven so he could turn it off from the couch if he forgot

to do so after cooking his meal.

Smart speakers like HomePods and Echos

A final gadget that can really help an aging parent around the house is a

smart speaker, like Apple’s HomePod or Amazon’s Echo. Smart speakers

are a repository of information that can be accessed using just your voice,

and they can also help control other connected gadgets without having to

get up.

For example, if you wirelessly connect your smart plugs to a smart

speaker system, your parent can tell Alexa or Siri to turn on the lights in

the dining room. Connecting smart plugs to a smart speaker system is

usually as simple as scanning a QR code on the smart device with a

phone’s camera, and once you’ve set it up, your parents won’t have to

mess with connecting them again. The resulting voice control ability may

be a better option than app-based controls for some people, especially if

they find using a smartphone app cumbersome.

Smart speakers can also make it easier for aging parents to contact you

or others should they want to talk or need help. For example, users can

instruct a HomePod to text someone or even initiate a FaceTime audio

call. If your parent has fallen and can’t get up, a smart speaker may allow

them to use their voice to call for outside help.